Sunday, April 20, 2014

Step Up & Stand Out



On Thursday, I had the pleasure of being selected by my manager and the bank CEO to attend the Utah Bankers Association's Women In Banking Conference, along with about 20 other women from our bank.  I really didn't know what to expect.  I thought, being a banking conference, that it would be about banking.  And I was so wrong.  It was actually quite the lift that I needed.  So I thought, being a self-motivator and hoping to motivate others, that I would share some of the things that stood out to me from this. I also don't want to lose the thoughts and feelings that came from this day. It was great- and I came away empowered


Dr. Susan Madsen- UWEI 

The first speaker was Dr. Susan Madsen. She has a Phd and she is well published. Her primary focus right now, is in regards to the vast gap in Utah between men and women graduates. And not just the gap in who attends college or graduate programs, but who actually graduates from these programs. 
The gap is so large that the state has asked Dr. Madsen to help with the initiative.  Utah Women's Education Initiative. I've linked the website so you can see the great things they are doing, as well as the research on this if you are interested.  

The state of Utah actually has the biggest gap in male versus female graduates in the United States. And this isn't just about women anymore... we're even seeing a big drop in men graduates now. There is currently a 6% graduation gap between men and women in Utah... Now before you go thinking that 6% is not that big of a gap, the next largest gap is New Jersey at 2.7%.  And at what point would you consider it a big enough gap that we should finally address it? 10%? 15%?
Six percent against the number of entries into college programs equals out to be thousands of female students not obtaining their degree.  And the fact that Utah has the highest number of female college dropouts is concerning to me. Even disturbing! Many females questioned sited reasoning as an "all or nothing" mentality. Meaning that they can't go part time, on-line, or night classes once they've started their families. They feel pressured (real or perceived) to drop everything and maintain the family lifestyle rather than seeking to obtain their degrees.

Being a full time worker, full time mom, AND full time student, I can tell you, there IS time! It just needs to be a priority. And to many, it just is not.  They maintain an "I'll do it someday" thought process, but then it never happens.  These women are also stating that there are other factors involved that helped them to prioritize. So Dr. Madsen asked graduates as well as those who did not graduate the same questions to have a controlled process. But she found that women (and men) who had at least one person encouraging them to graduate were more likely to do so.  Many women who sought post-secondary schooling but did not graduate stated that they were encouraged to go to college, but graduating was never part of that discussion. So they thought it was OK to go to school until they were married, and then stop.  One woman that they interviewed stated that she was elated to be engaged after just one semester of college, because that meant she didn't have to take finals. (What!?!?!?)
Dr. Madsen also stated that when children are encouraged to save their OWN money for college, they were more likely to go and graduate from college.  
What I took away from this presentation was that not only do we need to be encouraging of those around us to seek a college education, but they should have the goal of graduation. One person encouraging a young person is all it may take! I also took away that by having a college degree, a woman is more likely to be a better mother, wife, and be more involved with the community. Children of those who graduate tend to be life long learners as well, and tend to be early readers. 
Many equate college education to economic improvement- if I graduate, I'll get a good job. And for those women who aspire to be a stay-at-home-mom, this will not resonate well with them. But if we can teach them that you will be a better mother and wife with a college degree, then perhaps this will encourage them.  Also, students who visited college campuses were more likely to graduate as well.... so point taken-- Take your kids to visit college campuses! Even at a young age. If you are going on vacation, go and visit the local university.
I can't help but think about growing up in the LDS church and sitting through Young Women Sunday School classes, and we learned about cooking, and being spiritually prepared for motherhood and wifehood, the Personal Progress guidelines were all about service and family-dom, but not about seeking outside employment or education. Sure, I knew that the prophet spoke about getting an education, but it was not a high priority to many who felt that it was not necessary to being a mom- and  it wasn't taught like this on the local level.  And personally, I think that needs to change. I even had an LDS friend who chose a degree program that seemed interesting to her, and once she graduated and still wasn't married- she had no idea what she would do for a living with the degree she chose! How different it could have been for her had she been taught slightly different. There is such a different mentality. 
Also, in my work in HR, we have noted that there is a high difference in women who seek economics, accounting, or finance degrees, and we are trying to change that by talking to high school classes and 1 & 2 year college students about the different career opportunities they can hope for with these types of degrees. 

There is so much more that can be done on this front.  I had to do a paper on diversity for my master's program, and I found this out months ago.  Since then, I have tried to be an advocate at work to those around me to seek a degree.  

Like I said, some times it only takes that one small voice of encouragement that can make all the difference. 

There are a few other things that I hope to write about in regards to things that were brought up at this conference, but this post has grown a mind of its own. It'll have to come later.  

Tell me what you think... I'd love to hear your take on this growing concern. 

Bachelor's Graduation May 2012 and Master's Grad in 8 weeks!!!! :) 





Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Spring Fever!!

Sprin i i the  air

I love it when the chill in the air finally turns slightly warmer and the temperature finally hits and stays in the 60s! Ahhh.... Windows down, music up, I love this weather! 
I have yet to get outside to run, but it is certainly easier to want to go to the gym when the weather is nice.  
Over the weekend we got quite a bit of spring cleaning out of the way! It was nice to organize and get somethings out of the way. We organized under the kitchen sink, organized the hall closet and got the winter coats out of the way, put new shoe racks in D's and the hall closet, bought and built a new bookshelf for Gianna's room, cleaned both kids' rooms.... We got a lot done! And that carried over to work on Monday where I cleaned and organized my office a bit. 

I have been looking at new training schedules for running. I downloaded a timer app to keep me to my intervals and try to really decrease my minutes per mile. My lastest time is 11:20/mile on 3 miles. And then 11:50/mile on 4.6 miles. I found that the timer app helps me focus on the time, and I can tell myself "just a little bit more"... whereas by myself, I was more prone to quitting when I got just a little too winded. The app is called "IntervalTimer" and its free on iTunes. Its very basic and you can create your own intervals. I'm currently doing 3:2, and I hope to get up to 5:2 soon. 

I have been looking to get another pair of Brooks running shoes. I currently run in the PureConnect 2's. While in St. George a few weeks ago, I went into the St. George Running Center to look into some new ones. They have come out with the 3's but they didn't have my size. I really love this running store. I am always so impressed with the staff and their knowledge. Ever since D and I were properly fit for running shoes, I always tell people to go get fitted at a running store! 
So I've been keeping an eye online for sales, and I noticed that Brooks was selling the PureConnect 2's for $49!! Hot Stuff! I'm sold. I LOVE these shoes!! 






These are what I currently have! 
I still have quite a few miles left in these! 

And These are what I just bought! I'm so excited... they'll be here Friday- just in time for my Saturday run!! 







The sun is shining, and the birds and flowers are everywhere! We have plans to be outside more. Our lovely Mayan hammock has made its entrance, and the sandbox is refilled, and we bought a new swing for the tree. I LOVE outdoor weather. And I can't wait to take my runs outside again.

We are planning our 11 year anniversary. We hope to go to Zion National Park, where we were married, and do a hike or run through it. It should be great weather in Southern Utah to do that! 

What do you have planned to celebrate Spring? 



Thursday, April 3, 2014

The Inaugural Avengers Superhero Half Marathon




On March 25, at 10:08 MST, I signed up my family and I to get in on the first ever Avengers Superhero Half Marathon Weekend. Were you lucky enough to get a bib?  The race sold out in about two and a half hours! 
I am sad for those who didn't get a place in the race, but super excited to do this with my hubby! 

So far since our magical finish of the Tinkerbell Half in January, we have been lucky enough to keep on the training road and not much has gotten in our way! We ran our first 10k together, knowing that we could use the time to secure a better corral for the Avengers Half.  


I finished at about 11:50/mile and D finished at 10:50/mile. A nice decrease from our Tinkerbell race.  That would have us finishing at 2:30:00 round abouts so that is what I signed us up for. We have until about August to do better and get the new times to runDisney. 

Of course our brains are already rolling with thoughts of what to dress up as, and we have lots of time. I also have learned from the last time, so I'm glad the ideas are flowing to readily now. That'll come in handy. 

I want to do my best to document the training a lot better. It'll be good for me and hopefully encouraging to anyone reading.